Happiness,an art.

Hello everybody,a very good morning. I am trying to keep up with my blog but seriously i am hell of a busy. Still i want to be regular and i am trying hard for it. Its good for me to be regular actually. I just feel like writing about ' Happiness ' in life. As it is said 'Life is what we make it ' So its very true.Its upto everyone of us how we manage our lives. Either by overloading ourselves with worries and getting old and dying early due to these worries or just utilizing every moment of our lives in a better happier way.
I am not of the view that there are no troubles in our lives. Yes we do have but there are two ways to handle and solve them. First just with a lament by saying 'why this happened', 'shouldn't have happened' etc etc. Second by being solution oriented. Finding a way to solve problems because there is nothing impossible in this world. Happiness is an art which comes with self creativity and i believe every humanbeing is creative in his or her own way.

Good day to whoever reads my blogs. Need your feedback. Please come up with some suggestions.
Takecare.

This World

Hey, Hello everyone.Once again i am back. I try to stick to my blogs regularly from now on.
 Well today just want to write about this world.Seriously its a strange yet a beautiful place to live in. I mean there are so many colors in this world that at every step you get a big surprise and you say to yourself that ' I have never thought of this before '
These colors are the different traditions, different cultures, different people we meet when we move along in this world.The most important thing is though that how you are watching this world,i mean are you looking at this world with a positive,brighter lens or just finding faults in every bit of things /creation of this world. Its well said ' Nothing is good or bad,our thinking makes it so ' So its all about how we see this world, The more broader perspective you'll carry while moving in this world,the more you stay happy with everything/everyone coming your way rather than changing it the way you want it.
 So its all about accepting this world with all its weaknesses and strengths. Yes do good but by accepting that is coming towards you,the way its coming towards you.

 Good Day.

Human Beings

 Hello. Well i have been thinking for a while now about us means human beings. We seriously are amazing creation of God.We are,our own leaders,our own teachers and what not.Its just like a kingdom within a human being that he/she always loves to rule. Its not a bad thing. i mean if every individual will not have control over him or herself than there are many invaders surrounding us to take charge of our very own personal kingdom. But one thing about human beings is a little awkward or disturbing and that is that we all are quite judgemental when it comes to have an opnion about others. Most of us donot try to know or understand the other person but still we want to give our final verdict as soon as we can. Thats one thing that is not good in us being human beings. Because it happens that sometimes we judge a person 's personality keeping in view only our own perspective,without getting in the shoes of other person. Seriously we need to improve because overall human beings are the most amazing creation on earth.

 Hello and Morning. Today i feel like talking about Hate. I know its a very negative feeling in a human being but unfortunately it exist side by side the feeling of love. Why we hate? Why we possess such sort of a feeling.? Maybe it has some psychological aspect as well apart from others.  I mean every human being in his life goes through certain experiences which may not be good enough or harsh enough that they leave a negative trace on a man's personality. These negative feelings or thoughts he may carry with him for the rest of his life. As a result
many of us become selfish, producing negative feelings for others, feeling superior to every other person in a wrong way and what not. These elements in a human being produces hate. But how these feelings can be changed into positive thinking, positive behavior?.What contribution we all can give into our own lives to become a better person not only for ourselves but also for others?. Because sometimes its very easy to think good about and for our own selves but it becomes a rather a difficult task to think good about and for others as well. This is one area of human personality that needs to be cured. This may also help in curing the disease of Hate.

Love

Hey, Morning.  Well today i just feel like talking about the one feeling we all carry within us that is Love.
Now its not necessary that its only the love b/w a man and a woman but all sorts of love. Love sometimes gives us strength and sometimes make us weak from inside. When does it make us weak when we allow a flow of expectations from the other person to overcome our body and soul. I am not saying that 'OH I am perfect it doesnt happen with me'. Actually it does thats why i am writing about it. Because this is what happens with most of us normally. We just let ourselves be ruled by expectations from others and than when the other person whom we love doesn't respond the same way we feel like we are let down but if we just think for a while that the other person is also a human,we may try to expect less from him or her and try not to put up a fight but a good understanding instead.
Love is not about visualizing the next person the way we want to visualize but its to accept eachother they way they are.With all the weakness,strength and i think this is the real test of love. Love requires patience. Haste always makes waste. Love.

Poetic Faith.

Hello,Morning.Today we will be talking about one of the beautiful techniques which Coleridge has adopted in his poetry. That technique is known as "The Willing Suspension Of Disbelieve" It means that a pet imaginative power in his poetry is portrayed in such a way that it seems to be real to the readers who are reading the poem.
Its a very beautiful technique and S.T Coleridge has used in his many poems.

Life is all a matter of learning.

Hello everyone.Well life's being a little tough around but still it feels like it has so much to give and we all have so much to take if we really want to take it.I believe happiness is very much there when we just try to handle things in a smoother calm way,rather than rushing into cruel hasty decisions.
I met so many different sorts of people in my life and everytime i meet some one i learn good things from them.
Learning is life and life is all about learning.It doesn't matter who the next person from whom we just try to learn
some good things,what matters is are we willing to learn and make our lives more and more beautiful and worth living everyday.Even we could learn from animals as well.They teach us so many good things.Loyalty,love care and what not.They are a sort of companion to us when we are all alone.
As S.T Coleridge  says "The happiness of life is made up of minute fractions-the little soon forgotten charities of a kiss or a smile, a kind look or a heartfelt compliment."
So little things when come together makes a big happiness.That is what i am learning from life.

Tuesday,April 3,2012

Hello and Morning.I am again back.Well so what we should we talk about today.
Alright lets talk about how you feel when you are a multilingual person.I think we all must be multilingual.Its wonderful to be one.Language learning has no boundaries.Its just like you are giving yourself a benefit.Specially when the world has become a global village and everyday we interact with people around the world.So its necessary.
What do you think?anybody there reading?

Tuesday,March 27,2012

Morning.Hey.In my last post the question that i raised was what is a healthy criticism.If i explain it in few words.It is an opinion made by people or your opponents on your work or anything you do or write or speak of.But this criticism must have some alternative solution given by the people who criticize,which normally doesn't happen.So it must be a solution oriented criticism.
How to respond,one must listen to what criticism one recieves but do not let it effect one's work.if a solution is being given,it can be considered but not totally agree with it.Your idea has always its own value and one must try his level best that it is implemented or respected at least with reasoning and logic.
Good day.

Sunday,March 25,2012

hey,Its Sunday..What today's plans.trip to somewhere nice or staying at home all day.
Well its your choice.So what should i talk about today.What about criticism? what is meant by healthy criticism?If one recieve criticism how one should cope with it.Should it be that we must react aggressively or should we deal with it in a sensible way?My views in the next post.
Good Day..

Saturday,March 24,2012

Morning everyone.Yesterday i was talking about names and their influences on our personality.If you ask me yes to some extent they do effect our personality specially when a name carries a very powerful meaning or has some kind of family history. Most of all what effects your personality is  when you give a child one name and then change it and afterwards everyone who knows him calls him with both names.It becomes all confusing.Individual's identity must always stay as one,not a dual one. 

Friday,March 23,2012

Morning.Hey everyone.Today is a very historic day for my country.Its Pakistan's Resolution Day.
23rd March 1940 was the day when a resolution of a seperate country was passed.It was a very big day for all the Muslims of India who want their seperate land.Their freedom in fact.
But the question that is in my mind today is not related to this historic day.Its about people having two names.I mean they had a name in their childhood but their parents change that name for some reasons and the child gets the new one.
But as he/she grew older he/she is still called by both the names.Some call him with his old name and some with new.The question in my mind is if such is the situation with a person.Is it possible that two names effect a person's personality? Does his/her personality becomes confused or complicated.Does it effects his life decisions or not?Do names have such influence on person's personality?

Thursday,March 22,2012

Morning and Hey..So Yesterday i was talking about two terms Hope and Expectation/Expect.As for me these are two different terms.Most of us think they are one.In my view To Expect is when we create so many expectations from people around us.In other words expectations are always from people who come across in our lives whereas Hope is from God who has created this world and every tiny bit existing in this world and in this universe..
Now i observe that whenever we expect from people we somehow are not fully satisfied or sometimes we get hurt even.But if we have a strong faith in God and have Hopes from Him we always stay happy and at peace in our lives.
Isn't it so?
Good Day.

Wednesday,March 21,2012

Hi, well its been quite a while that i wrote something...So here i am again after sometime..
Whats on my mind today...Can you tell me the Difference b/w Expectation And Hope...Do you think that they both are two different terms or just one term...Let me know...
I'll express my views later...
Good Day.......

Wednesday,March 07,2012

Morning....Well a little space is must...so last i was talking about Phonetics and Phonology of English language..I think its necessary for a learner to have some knowledge of the sound production and formation of the language...While learning language,any language one should focus on these things.It helps us learning and pronouncing language correctly...
Good Day...

Sunday,March 04.2012

Hi,Morning....Well guess what's today..It's important to me...Alright i'll tell..Its my birthday..Yay..
So i am going to dedicate my birthday to people who deserve care and love....
Alright apart from my birthday..i hope you are familiar with the description of sound system of any language.If i talk about English language specifically.The Phonetics and Phonology of English Language...How much you think that its important for any speaker who learns the language,must have the knowledge of the Phonetics and Phonology of language...Is it important for the learners or not???
Good Day..

Morning....Last day was such a blessing for me..i enjoyed a lot...Cooked and had fun...I've learned something,a new lesson you can say...Patience and trust...When i look around people they are not patient and as well as do not trust you..Its becoming so common in our daily lives..
The most painful part is the trust which people don't have in each other...seriously...how can we solve this issue..?i mean in my society where i live..this problem is growing like a disease,let's say like a parasite and its destroying every sort of relationship in minutes,even in seconds...what i learnt is to be different..to make the difference starting with myself....Good day....

Friday,March 02,2012

Hello..morning...So today's special...Do you know how to cook..and if you do how much a good cook are you?
well! if you ask me i am a good cook..and today i am going to cook Chicken Rice..I am going to stay with my mother and it will be fun...Have you ever gone through this recipe of Chicken rice..Its fun to make and delicious to eat..trust me..

Morning....try to make things possible that are impossible..Try to achieve the toughest..Try to catch the waves and ride them rather than running away from them...this is life...

Wednesday,February 29,2012

Morning...so lets have a little explanation of To be or not to be...here lies the whole mystery.
Its like a choice given in life..either we live and face the ups and downs of life or we should
give up..quit this life..welcome death..but don't you think its a very pessimistic approach.I mean why die?why give up..why not live...why not face things like a solider,a warrior who never quits the battlefield...I favor TO BE rather than NOT TO BE...Good day

Tuesday,February 28,2012

Morning...well the day is going to be good..hope is the remedy..
i try today to put some purpose to my life...tell me..
How can you elaborate this phrase..
To be or not to be...here lies the whole mystery...
i elaborate later..but first your turn...
good day...

Monday,27 February,2012

Morning..Well i am feeling very fine today.for last two days i was seriously feeling broken for some reasons but now its over and i am alive...i am happy..Life is just a heartbeat,sometimes its daylight and sometimes its nightfall..is it not..

Morning...Its sunday,well at some places it still isn't but i am enjoying this beautiful morning.
So whats for breakfast?Oh cm'on anything you love to eat on sundays.
Well i have planned to write a book.Its about life..my personal experiences of life..What do you think should be the name of my book.It should be different..I am still thinking on it.Help me finding a different and beautiful name for my book..Will you?

Journey

You know Life is all about a journey towards a better destiny..We all have our destinies marked..i meet people in my life whom i want to walk with..how to make them understand i never know..Still i am trying..We shouldn't be giving up..we must try..Let's see can i have success or not..Do you think i should not give up and try or you believe in some other theory..